A child’s relationship with their teacher can have significant repercussions, both on their learning and well-being. In fact, it’s been shown that relationships built on mutual trust and respect promote academic success and help keep kids in school. Fortunately, with the right attitude, you can help your child build a positive relationship with their teacher.
Children want to please others. It’s in their nature! So, if you speak negatively about someone—even in whispers—your child is likely to hear you and do the same. To avoid setting a bad example, try to adopt a positive attitude and use kind words when talking about others, especially your child’s teacher. For example, you could highlight the teacher’s skills and qualities:
All teachers have their own unique approach. Whether or not you agree with a teacher’s methods, it’s important to avoid making negative comments in front of your child. If you have any questions or concerns, do the following:
Trust is contagious! If you demonstrate that the teacher has your full confidence, your child will have an easier time trusting them, too. For instance, you can try the following:
Class projects are a unique opportunity to get involved in your child’s school life, but also to forge a bond with their teacher. If the situation permits, don’t hesitate to volunteer your time in the classroom:
Teachers have a very demanding job. By pointing out how hard they work and encouraging your child to thank them, you highlight the teachers’ strengths. At the end of term or for a special occasion, invite your child to make their teacher a thank-you gift. For instance, they could do the following:
Need advice on how to forge a partnership with your child’s teacher? Check out our article on the subject. It’s a treasure trove of information!
Writing : The Alloprof Parents' team