For many students, the second cycle of high school (Secondary III to V) is very difficult. They’re not only facing bigger academic challenges, but also struggling to figure out who they are. Fortunately, as parents, you can make a difference!
Who am I? What is my purpose in life? What job do I want to do for the next 30 years? These are some of the many existential questions that occupy the thoughts of Cycle 2 high schoolers. With so much on their minds, it’s no surprise that some begin to struggle academically. Here’s what you can do to support your teen as they grapple with these questions:
It’s not uncommon for a student’s motivation to wane during their last years of high school. One of the ways you can help is by reminding them that their education has a purpose. Point out the following:
Being an active member of their community, participating in group activities, or volunteering are all great ways for your teen to get something positive out of their high school experience. Getting involved has a host of benefits:
When you’re a teenager, autonomy is extremely important. Fostering your child’s independence will strengthen their self-esteem and may even curb their desire to break the rules. To help your teen become more autonomous, you can do the following:
As they enter Cycle 2, high schoolers also have important decisions to make. They need to pick courses, figure out their post-secondary plan, choose a career path, and more. All these decisions can be overwhelming and lead to anxiety. To help your child make the right choices, consider setting up a meeting with a guidance counsellor. Here are some things they can do to help your teen:
Is your high schooler still lacking motivation despite your best efforts? Try posting inspirational phrases somewhere in plain view!
Writing : Alloprof Parents' team