Self-confidence and academic motivation

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Self-confidence and motivation are two of the essential conditions for academic success. However, for children to want to go to school and excel in the classroom, they must first believe in themselves. Here are a few ways to help strengthen your child’s self-confidence.

Provide opportunities for success

When a child has self-confidence, they trust in themselves and their abilities. To build self-confidence, children need to experience success. Simple successes can take the form of winning a gold medal in karate, getting a good grade in math, or simply tying their own shoelaces. You can create opportunities for your child to experience success on a daily basis by encouraging them to take on age-appropriate challenges. Here are some examples:

  • Packing their school bag for the next day
  • Reviewing vocabulary words without your help
  • Overcoming their shyness and asking a question in class
  • Etc.

Offer encouragement

Cheering on your child is a great way to boost their confidence. You can regularly encourage them to take chances and believe in themselves. Remember to be sincere; there’s no need to go overboard! Here are some simple ways to encourage your child:

  • Use words of encouragement (e.g., “You can do it,” “I trust you!”)
  • Applaud their accomplishments
  • Share in their joy when they rise to a challenge
  • Etc.

Acknowledge their efforts

Valuing hard work is a good way to increase self-confidence. Plus, it fosters autonomy and self-motivation. Wondering how to celebrate your child’s efforts? Try the following:

  • Praise your child whenever they make progress
  • Let them know that you’re proud of their hard work and perseverance
  • Use body language (e.g., applaud, give a thumbs up)
  • Etc.

 

Be supportive

Children gain confidence when they know they’re supported. They need encouragement, but they also need to feel that you’ve got their back. There are plenty of ways to support your child:

Ask their opinion

To help your child develop self-confidence and good judgment, ask for their feedback on a variety of topics and take their opinions into account. For example, you can ask for the following:

Tips and tools

For more tips on boosting your child’s self-confidence, read our article on the subject.

Useful documents
Tool

loving-notes-boost-childs-confidence.pdf

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Collaborators

Writing : Viviane Asselin
Scientific review : Anne-Marie Audet, psychoeducator

Rewriting : The Alloprof Parents' team

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