How to Support Your Gifted Child

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Update : February 9, 2026

Does your child have a higher-than-average learning ability and curiosity? Do you think your child might be gifted (or have high intellectual potential)? Here are a few things to consider.

What Is Giftedness?

 

The word giftedness is commonly used to refer to exceptional skills or talents, especially in sports or the arts. Given the wide variety of documented profiles, there is no single profile of a gifted child or any universal identification criteria that experts agree on. However, from a psychological and neuropsychological point of view, a child with intellectual giftedness is generally a child who demonstrates the following:

  • An extensive knowledge range
  • Very strong ability to innovate and problem solve
  • Ability to make connections between pieces of information
  • Very strong ability to learn and transfer knowledge
  • Motivation and intellectual curiosity to understand why and how things work

What About Intelligence Quotient (IQ)?
The concept of giftedness has evolved to include creative and developmental abilities. That’s why it’s no longer based solely on IQ (intelligence quotient), although IQ is still the most common criterion for identifying intellectual giftedness. 
While a child’s potential is mainly innate, it can also be affected by education and environment.

Giftedness and Twice-Exceptionality

A child is called twice-exceptional when giftedness occurs in conjunction with a disability, chronic mental health problem, or another disorder, for example:

Getting twice-exceptionality (giftedness and an associated disorder) identified by a specialist is crucial in children, since they are at risk of having behavioural, emotional, or academic challenges.
It is estimated that about 2% to 7%[1] of gifted students are twice-exceptional. However, that’s still an approximate estimate, since giftedness can mask certain difficulties, and in turn, a disorder can prevent high intellectual potential from being recognized. 
For example, a child may have a learning disorder, but their high intellectual potential allows them to hide their difficulties more effectively than the average kid. Or, a child’s giftedness could be masked by a disorder, or the giftedness and the disorder could mask each other. It’s essential to get an experienced specialist to assess your child and identify their needs.

Be careful!

Although giftedness is considered to be a good thing and a protective factor, it does not guarantee that a child will thrive socially or emotionally. Two subgroups of gifted children may face difficulties. First, children who are twice-exceptional. Second, the very rare children who have VHIP (very high intellectual potential), due to the significant gap with children their own age.

When Should You Seek Help for Giftedness?

It can be difficult for parents to identify whether their child is gifted, since the signs of giftedness vary. One gifted child may love school and get good grades, while another gifted child may be uninterested, disruptive, or “invisible,” and have erratic academic performance. 
In some situations, getting a professional identification of giftedness by a psychologist or neuropsychologist can be helpful. Getting a professional assessment can help a child develop their potential, get to know themself better, and understand the source of any potential difficulties, especially if the child is twice-exceptional. 
 

Be careful!

It is important to note that giftedness should not be viewed as a diagnosis. Since giftedness is not a neurodevelopmental disorder, psychologists and neuropsychologists cannot make a diagnosis of giftedness. Rather, it’s a procedure to identify a giftedness profile.
If there is reasonable doubt about the presence of giftedness, the recommended approach is to observe the child’s behaviours and signs of giftedness to meet their needs, rather than attempting to label the child as gifted. 

What Activities Can You Suggest to a Gifted Child?

For a gifted child to fulfill their potential, they must be guided, stimulated, and encouraged to explore their interests. Here are some ways parents can help their child develop their talents:

  • Give your child challenges to take on so they can explore their interests in depth and develop skills in subject areas they’re passionate about.
  • Provide a variety of resources to satisfy your child’s insatiable curiosity: books, movies, comic books, puzzles, strategy games, online courses, musical instruments, etc.
  • Expose your child to new things: culture, languages, discoveries, travel, sports, etc.
  • Enroll your child in specialized camps, competitions, math Olympiads, or arts and science events.
  • Encourage them to start up personal projects and get involved in the community.
  • Suggest that your child try tutoring another classmate.
  • Etc.
     

School Options to Consider

To keep your gifted child stimulated and help them do well in school, consider the following options:

  • Schools offering a variety of enriched programs that explore topics in depth in subjects like mathematics, French, social sciences, and science and technology.
  • Vocational schools that align with your child’s interests and abilities, including arts and sciences.
  • Schools that offer concentrations, such as in sports, arts, music, or science.
  • International Baccalaureate (IB) programs, designed for curious, academically gifted high school students who love school.
  • Alternative schools (French only) that offer programs and learning environments for academically gifted children who are also highly independent and self-motivated.
  • Also, the Centre de services scolaire Marguerite-Bourgeoys has adopted a policy regarding gifted and talented students (both links in French).

    Don’t hesitate to talk with your child’s school staff to get guidance as you consider your options. 

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