What to Do if You Don’t Like School

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Does going to school feel like a chore? You’re not alone—some students have a harder time in school than others. If you’re worried because you’re not enjoying school right now, remember that your feelings may change over time, and there are steps you can take right now to help. Here are a few tips for getting motivated to go to school.

What to Do if You Don’t Like School.

School Is Too Easy

If you’re bored at school, it’s probably because the learning pace is too slow or you’re just not interested in what you’re doing in class. If that sounds like you, here are a few things you can try:

  • Ask your teacher for more challenging work that allows you to dig deeper into a topic and give your brain a workout.

  • Set achievable school-related goals for yourself (e.g., score above X% in your favourite subject, get more exercise, read more books, etc.).

  • Find ways to connect your interests to the subjects you find boring (for example, if you like art, you could think of an art project idea to suggest to your teacher).

  • Don’t be afraid to offer help to classmates who are struggling with concepts you’ve mastered. You could also post explanations for other students in the Alloprof Help Zone!

  • Draw connections between what you’re learning at school and your daily life or future career goals. It will help you understand the importance of school.

  • If you have an inquisitive mind, make a habit of diving deeper into the subjects you’re studying at school, just for the fun and challenge of it! Learning doesn’t have to stop at the classroom door.

Tip

If you’re bored at school because you feel like you’re wasting your time, read this article that explains why school is important. School provides you with a comprehensive, well-rounded education. It helps you learn who you are and plays a big role in your personal growth. In addition, dropping out of school can be a major obstacle later in life. Don’t hesitate to discuss your lack of motivation with a counsellor or someone you trust if you ever feel like you want to drop out.

School Is Tough

When you’re falling behind in class, it’s normal to feel overwhelmed and like you want to give up. Here are a few things you can do:

It’s Hard to Make Friends

Making friends can be a challenge at any time in your life. If you don’t want to go to school because you feel lonely there, you can try these tips to develop new friendships:

  • Sign up for group activities you’re interested in (clubs or extracurricular activities, for example), even if you’re brand new to them. You can always learn a new skill if you put your mind to it!

  • Ask someone you’d like to get to know better to study for an exam, work on a school project together, or rehearse an oral presentation (link in French).

  • Ask a classmate to walk to school with you.

  • Organize a board game night or another group activity to break the ice.

  • Invite a classmate or two to do an activity you enjoy.

  • Attend school activities such as dances or sporting events.

  • Try to expand your social circle by talking to different groups of classmates during breaks.

  • Etc.

It can take time to build friendships, so be patient. In the meantime, focus on getting to know your classmates. New friendships often develop through shared interests.

Be careful!

If you think you’re being bullied—for example, if a person or group is repeatedly excluding or isolating you—let an adult know! If you need to, you can always contact Tel-jeunes for more personalized advice.

Find out more!

Want to learn more about motivation and how to increase it? In this article, we explain how to boost your extrinsic motivation (desire to do something because of outside factors) and intrinsic motivation (desire to do something because you enjoy it). You may just find that you have plenty of reasons to go to school!

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