What to do if your child stutters

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Sometimes, our brains move faster than our mouths, and everything gets jumbled up. When this happens in children, they may repeat certain syllables or prolong words or sounds. When it persists, it is called stuttering. Fortunately, it’s possible to help your child overcome this challenge and thrive both in and outside of school.

Mon enfant begaie : comment l'aider?

Mon enfant begaie : comment l'aider?

Build your child’s self-confidence

Stuttering can have a huge impact on a child’s self-confidence. It can lead to teasing, bullying, or simply frustration at always having to say things over again. As self-confidence is crucial to academic success, here are a few examples of what you can do to boost your child’s faith in their abilities:

  • Don’t overdramatize the situation (e.g., put things in perspective)
  • Highlight areas where they can excel (e.g., sports, arts, reading)
  • Be understanding (e.g., listen to them, don’t minimize their feelings)
  • Acknowledge their efforts
  • Etc.

Be a good listener

Although stuttering sometimes makes conversation a little bumpy, it’s important to actively listen to your child when they speak. This will help foster their self-esteem. Here are some tips for being a good listener:

  • Encourage your child to speak their mind (e.g., ask questions, ask for their opinion)
  • Avoid saying words for them
  • Let your child finish their thoughts
  • Keep a positive expression on your face when your child is talking (e.g., smile)
  • Be patient
  • Etc.

Lead by example

Children naturally imitate their parents, which presents a great opportunity for you to set a good example! If your child has a stutter, it can be helpful to do the following:

  • Speak more slowly and calmly
  • Take the time to enunciate every word
  • Avoid being too hard on yourself
  • Etc.

Focus on what they say, not how they say it

Focusing on effort by paying attention to what your child says rather than how they say it will encourage their desire to communicate. This can also help in other ways:

  • Your child will be more motivated
  • They’ll be less frustrated about not feeling heard or understood
  • They’ll develop perseverance
  • Etc.

Consult a specialist

The more support a child receives, the easier it is to overcome the challenges of having a stutter. This is why it’s important to consult a trained professional, such as a speech-language pathologist. Here are some things they can do to help:

  • Carry out assessments
  • Make a diagnosis
  • Propose treatment strategies
  • Work with you to foster your child’s well-being and progress
  • Etc.
Tips and tools

To ensure that your child has a supportive and accepting school environment, partner with the team at their school to find solutions. A learning environment tailored to your child’s needs will help them gain control of their speech and manage their stuttering.

Collaborators

Writing : Amélie Cournoyer
Scientific review : Sabah Meziane, orthophoniste

Rewriting : Alloprof Parents' team

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